Being Opponent Talk Exciting

When talking face to face with someone we have to look enthusiastic and must show as a partner to talk a good and fun. But the problems that often confront us every time we looked at each other directly with the speaker's eyes, it also immediately arise discomfort, nervous and even embarrassed.

Being a good friend who spoke practically easy bother. Especially with new people. That is proof that not everyone really master it, though in fact almost every time is not separated from the activities of communication with others.

Then, how to be good friends and pleasant conversation? Here are tips from The Art Of Conversation as reported by page Yahoo! Shine:

1. Avoid unnecessary detail talks

Sometimes in an exciting conversation, you will feel cornered against the detailed questions about yourself or a case. If you think it is important not to talk about, you do not have to explain it. However, do not divert the conversation because it will change the atmosphere of communication that has been created.

2. Do not ask another question if you answered the previous question was not completed

If you ask a question about one side of life from the other person, do not immediately jump on the topic of another conversation about you before they answered. In addition will make you look selfish, the other person would be lazy to continue the conversation with you.

3. Do not cut someone who is speaking

Tell me what you want to talk about with a clear and straightforward, and do not ever cut the other person. That way you give the other person a chance to express their opinions. Exclaimed two-way conversation would be easy to form.

4. Do not be contradictory, especially if it is not important

Discussions will never escape from the things that are contrary to the values ​​adopted person. However, do not insist if it is not important to talk about.

5. Do not dominate discussions

Ask questions to find out the similarities between you. Do not selfish in a discussion. Two-way discussion between you will make the discussion more exciting, and you will find a lot in common with your opponent speaks.

6. Do not always be the hero of every story

Wake up a balanced discussion. Do not always talk about you, your life, your friends, and everything about you.

7. Choose a topic as you wish with

Read an interesting topic to be discussed with the other person. Do not talk about politics if you know the other person is not a political person.

8. Be a good listener

By being a good listener, you can build the discussion topics is exciting to talk to your opponents.

9. Discussions should seharmoni with the environment

Consider the situation around, sometimes the conditions around you could be an interesting topic for discussion.

10. Do not exaggerate stories

Tell a story based on facts. Use tone and expression of the corresponding transform and describe the story.         

Awkward due to nervous when talking with others certainly cause a sense of difficult situation for us, on one hand when the face and our eyes are not directed to the speaker is certainly not polite impression and did not notice, but if we continue to make direct eye contact feeling nervous and uneasy still will appear.

To avoid nervous and uneasy and even lowered his head due to nervous when it runs out at each other's eyes. So there is a very telling tips are worth a try, when speaking with our speaker, Lift up your eyes on wilayahtriangle face covering forehead, cheeks bubble near the nose and mouth area left-right.

Implementation Experience

Of course the positive outcome of success using these tips will greatly assist us in conducting a successful conversation, especially when it is receiving a vent from a friend, giving directions / information to the subordinate / boss, business negotiations, etc. that require a high level of concentration to produce something that is important .

Try in advance to your close friends. Ask his opinion, what he really felt you spring to see his eyes?, that when the time for example we're looking at his forehead, and so on try and error by moving the direction of our gaze to the nose, lips and your friends are. Do not believe? Please try ... good luck ...!

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